Dating someone too nice
She will respect you more if she had to earn your “niceness” and affection.
It always feels better when you earn something, rather than it being given to you for no reason.
It has everything to do with integrity, values and self respect.
Your actions and reactions should be coming from your intent. And it needs to stop if you want to remove that label from your personality.
The opposite holds more true, as people tend to like you more when you have an opinion or your own viewpoints on things.
Women are attracted to guys that have values, and live by them — Even if they don’t match theirs.
Always agreeing with people is a huge trait of overly nice guys. It is OK to disagree with something if you really feel like it.
Don’t allow anyone to come between that by being too nice so as not to mention anything. And it certainly needs to stop if you want a healthy romantic relationship.
Learning how to disagree is a sign of maturity and strength.
And the truth is that being too nice to people without any reason can signal a man who is more concerned with making people around him feel comfortable and “happy”, and not being himself or concerned with his own thoughts and intents.
Especially with women, since they are highly observant of men and have good judgement on a man’s character and confidence level.