Dating an insecure woman
One morning she’s in his kitchen, wearing his oxford shirt and cooking breakfast for him. ” The next morning, she meekly apologizes, shows up for sex, and pulls the guy deeper into thinking that if he tries just a *little* bit harder, she’ll change for him.
She tells him she’ll see him later that night, then flakes out and heads to Kiss and Fly with me where we’ll dance the night away. And this is the genius – mad or otherwise – in how she handles a man.
Her emotions are like a hurricane: as soon as they comes, they can also be gone.
And a guy wants to believe that he’s going to be the one who tames her, that she’ll be his domestic Debbie.
Moment to moment, she seeks constant emotional and physical stimulation in the form of drugs, sex, cigarettes, text flirting with guys, etc.
And unlike most of us, she’s able to get away with this because, well, she’s a hot girl in New York City who knows how to play the game. She’s out two to four nights a weeks, sometimes hitting multiple clubs at once, and she’s always at the best and hottest new club.
It is important for her ego that the men she’s dating have certain qualifications.
For example, you can say: You’ll know that it’s working when she gets even more pissed off every time you try to push her buttons.Or maybe it will even motivate her to try to fix her own insecurity.For example, if she’s insecure about her big butt, she might just sign up at the gym and start doing squats. The most successful, the best-looking, the ones who eat women for breakfast.She’s sexy enough that she can make them work hard to get her – fancy meals, tables and bottles, whatever she wants, really – and once they’ve invested enough and then “won”, it becomes part of their ego that they’re dating the girl who everyone else wants but who no one can have.